As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.
— Proverbs 27:17
This week’s newsletter will be a little shorter than most. I want to share this list with everyone to stress the importance of surrounding yourself with good friends.
A Day Warrior knows that iron sharpens iron. The men you surround yourself with will either raise your standards or drag them down. A trusted group of friends is not just for fun—they are a brotherhood that challenges you, pushes you, and holds you accountable to your mission as a man, father, and leader.
Here are the top 10 things a trusted circle should do to help you grow, succeed, and become a better man every day:
1. Hold You Accountable
True friends don’t let you off the hook. They call you out when you’re slacking, making excuses, or breaking promises to yourself or your family. They remind you of your standards when you forget them.
2. Push You Beyond Your Comfort Zone
Growth never happens in comfort. Trusted friends challenge you to take on risks, try new things, and stretch your limits—whether it’s in business, fitness, or personal life.
3. Encourage Consistent Action
They remind you that success is not about motivation—it’s about discipline. They celebrate your small wins and keep you moving forward on the days you feel like quitting.
4. Share Knowledge and Resources
A strong circle trades ideas, skills, and experiences. They give you honest feedback, share opportunities, and help you learn faster so you can avoid mistakes they’ve already made.
5. Set High Standards Themselves
Your friends’ habits will rub off on you. When they train hard, read often, take care of their families, and pursue excellence, it raises the bar for everyone in the group.
6. Support Your Role as a Father
They encourage you to be present with your kids, share lessons on parenting, and remind you that success means nothing if you fail at home.
7. Tell You the Hard Truth
Trusted friends don’t sugarcoat reality. They’ll tell you when you’re wrong, when you’re selling yourself short, or when you’re not living up to your values.
8. Celebrate Your Wins—But Keep You Grounded
They cheer when you succeed but also remind you to stay humble, hungry, and focused on the next step.
9. Help You Stay Focused on What Matters
They protect you from distractions—both in life and business—and encourage you to invest your time in the things that actually move the needle.
10. Stand Beside You in the Storms
A true brotherhood is tested when life becomes difficult—losing a job, facing family struggles, or going through personal setbacks. Trusted friends step in, not just to comfort you, but to help you rise again.
Final Thoughts
Brotherhood is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. The men you choose to walk beside you will shape the man you become. Alone, you can make progress, but with a circle of trusted warriors, you can achieve far more than you ever imagined.
Now ask yourself:
- Do the men around me sharpen me—or dull my edge?
- Am I holding others accountable the way I expect them to hold me?
Your circle is your mirror. Build it wisely.
I’d love to hear from you—what’s one way your circle of friends has sharpened you? Hit reply and share your story. Your example might be the spark another Day Warrior needs today.
The Day Warrior
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